You want to build a strong marriage?
You want to avoid the pitfalls of an affair?
I read an article today which I thought was excellent. You've GOT to read the entire thing for yourself. Check out some snippets from the article:
"Nearly all marriages would improve dramatically if the wife would overcome her reservations and learn how to satisfy her husband with...conversation."
"Conversation... where each person feels accepted no matter what he or she says, reveals, explains, or feels. Complete openness to another human."
"Just as many men crave intimate sharing with another as do women."
"At Family Dynamics Institute we've discovered that relationship affairs develop as a man and woman begin to listen, understand, and accept the facts and feelings of their lives. They usually start innocently and progress without safety checks or barriers."
"...affairs most often find root in couples who are best friends."
"When husbands and wives allow their spouses to open up their deepest feelings and most sensitive history, deep levels of sharing and understanding will happen."
"There is a crucial difference in disliking what you hear and punishing the person for sharing it."
The article is written by Joe Beam, a Christian marriage expert who founded Family Dynamics Institute. He has also written the book, Becoming One: Emotionally, Spiritually and Sexually.
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