Verizon has done a fine job branding itself with the use of the "It's the network" phrase. Each commercial has someone with a Verizon mobile phone and hundreds of people behind them, signifying that they are not alone - that the network goes everywhere with them.It's nice to have the assurance of having the network behind you.
But what if the network represents all of the people who have expectations of you? What if every time you go to complete a project, the network is right there nagging you to meet their needs instead? What if the network breathes down your neck when you're trying to have personal study time with God? What if you're a Pastor and your congregation is constantly in the back of your mind to the point that you cannot think for yourself anymore?
Serving can get the best of us if we're not careful. Those we serve can get too many, too close, too often and we end up becoming resentful, irritable, and overwhelmed. Sometimes, we need to go to where the network can't find us.
How do you get away from the network? Here are some suggestions:
- Schedule an appoint with yourself and keep it sacred.
- Build block time into your weekly routine. Block time is a 1-3 hour segment of time you reserve to accomplish those tasks which require some time to get your mind into.
- Set virtual boundaries around yourself. For example, one of my coaching clients is working on a process of closing out work from her mind as the car passes a specific point during her commute from work. Then she starts focusing on her family the rest of the drive home.
Learn to handle the network and you'll be Serving Strong!
Great post Scott - when I think of my network, I see your face right in the front of the pack :) lol
Seriously - great post
Posted by: Paul | December 18, 2007 at 08:33 AM